# Etiquette

- Thread: https://externals.io/message/25446
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- Started by Sebastian Bergmann on 2006-08-29T19:38:11+00:00
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## #25446 — Sebastian Bergmann — 2006-08-29T19:38:11+00:00

URL: https://externals.io/message/25446#25446

For quite some time now I have noticed an increased rudeness and
 impoliteness from some few developers working on PHP, both on this
 mailinglist and on IRC.

 Other Open Source projects, like Gentoo Linux [1], for instance, have
 a policy for how their developers should interact. For example:

   "One should try to not be rude, abusive or impolite under any
   circumstances. Sometimes, just one sarcastic comment can change the
   tone to the reader. If you think you might give somebody a bad as a
   result of your comment, and if you really need to say it, make sure
   people understand that you are not trying to be offensive.

   Please remember that you are an official representative of Gentoo. In
   this capacity, you are expected to maintain a certain level of
   professionalism and courtesy in your day-to-day interactions with
   users and other developers."

 The straw that breaks the camel's back and made me write this email
 today is the fact that I was being called a "lowlife" by Edin on IRC
 because I informed Stefan about Edin's outbursts in his direction on
 IRC earlier ("sesser needs to be taken out back and shot",
 "he is a mega ego maniac and a prick in general").

 While I do not think that Stefan's behaviour is perfect, either, I deem
 remarks like these intolerable and I think the person that is being
 talked about (in its absence) has a right to know, which is why I gave
 Stefan a copy&paste from my IRC logfile.

 I wish everyone involved in the development of PHP would be able to
 discuss technical issues in a professional manner without getting
 offensive and personal.

 Please do not turn this thread into yet another flamewar,
Sebastian

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## #25447 — Andi Gutmans — 2006-08-29T21:25:05+00:00

URL: https://externals.io/message/25446#25447 · In reply to: #25446

Yep I completely agree.
Although PHP is a volunteers project, the development team represent the
project, and should therefore try and be as professional as possible (in the
many things that encompasses).

> -----Original Message-----
> From: news [mailto:news@sea.gmane.org] On Behalf Of Sebastian Bergmann
> Sent: Tuesday, August 29, 2006 12:38 PM
> To: internals@lists.php.net
> Subject: [PHP-DEV] Etiquette
> 
>  For quite some time now I have noticed an increased rudeness 
> and  impoliteness from some few developers working on PHP, 
> both on this  mailinglist and on IRC.
> 
>  Other Open Source projects, like Gentoo Linux [1], for 
> instance, have  a policy for how their developers should 
> interact. For example:
> 
>    "One should try to not be rude, abusive or impolite under any
>    circumstances. Sometimes, just one sarcastic comment can change the
>    tone to the reader. If you think you might give somebody a bad as a
>    result of your comment, and if you really need to say it, make sure
>    people understand that you are not trying to be offensive.
> 
>    Please remember that you are an official representative of 
> Gentoo. In
>    this capacity, you are expected to maintain a certain level of
>    professionalism and courtesy in your day-to-day interactions with
>    users and other developers."
> 
>  The straw that breaks the camel's back and made me write 
> this email  today is the fact that I was being called a 
> "lowlife" by Edin on IRC  because I informed Stefan about 
> Edin's outbursts in his direction on  IRC earlier ("sesser 
> needs to be taken out back and shot",  "he is a mega ego 
> maniac and a prick in general").
> 
>  While I do not think that Stefan's behaviour is perfect, 
> either, I deem  remarks like these intolerable and I think 
> the person that is being  talked about (in its absence) has a 
> right to know, which is why I gave  Stefan a copy&paste from 
> my IRC logfile.
> 
>  I wish everyone involved in the development of PHP would be 
> able to  discuss technical issues in a professional manner 
> without getting  offensive and personal.
> 
>  Please do not turn this thread into yet another flamewar, Sebastian
> 
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>  [1] 
> http://gentoo.org/proj/en/devrel/handbook/handbook.xml?part=3&chap=2
> 
> -- 
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> http://www.sebastian-bergmann.de/
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## #25450 — Lukas Kahwe Smith — 2006-08-30T09:23:39+00:00

URL: https://externals.io/message/25446#25450 · In reply to: #25447

Andi Gutmans schrieb:
> Yep I completely agree.
> Although PHP is a volunteers project, the development team represent the
> project, and should therefore try and be as professional as possible (in the
> many things that encompasses).

I agree with the general request, though I would be hesitant to combine 
this with any specific finger pointing. I think slowly things got out of 
hand and to some extend I guess pretty much everybody (myself included) 
started to modify their tone in a not so nice manner.

I think it will make life in this project a lot more enjoyable if we get 
back to discussing things in a polite manner. Of course there will still 
be disagreements or even some politics, but this way technical 
discussions will hopefully dominate.

regards,
Lukas
