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To: Pierre Joye <pierre.php@gmail.com>
Subject: Re: [PHP-DEV] [RFC] [Draft] Adopt Code of Conduct
From: pmjones88@gmail.com ("Paul M. Jones")


> On Jan 9, 2016, at 19:39, Pierre Joye <pierre.php@gmail.com> wrote:
>=20
> On Sun, Jan 10, 2016 at 12:38 AM, Bishop Bettini <bishop@php.net> =
wrote:
>> On Sat, Jan 9, 2016 at 11:21 AM, Paul M. Jones <pmjones88@gmail.com> =
wrote:
>>>=20
>>>>=20
>>>> On Jan 9, 2016, at 09:43, Pierre Joye <pierre.php@gmail.com> wrote:
>>>>=20
>>>>=20
>>>> On Jan 9, 2016 10:16 PM, "Paul M. Jones" <pmjones88@gmail.com> =
wrote:
>>>>>=20
>>>>>=20
>>>>>> On Jan 8, 2016, at 23:25, Pierre Joye <pierre.php@gmail.com> =
wrote:
>>>>>>=20
>>>>>> Paul's early reply in this thread were over aggressive
>>>>>=20
>>>>> You are wrong. At best, it is "your opinion" only.
>>>>=20
>>>> I am not wrong nor right. You were aggressive. And it is not only =
me
>>>> saying. that if you check this thread.
>>>=20
>>> I've checked it and I don't see the "aggressive" you are talking =
about.
>>> Can you be more precise? Quoting my actual sentences would be good.
>>=20
>>=20
>> Within the framework of the alternative PHP Contributor Etiquette, a
>> moderator would jump in about now. The email would go something like =
this:
...
>> Pierre, when you say "Paul's reply [was] over aggressive", you're =
presenting
>> an opinion word as a logical truth. Instead, consider phrasing like =
"I felt
>> Paul's reply was over aggressive". That phrasing signals you're =
expressing a
>> valid, true feeling you have rather than labeling the reply.

(/me nods) In the interest of improving my communications, I think it =
would be constructive if he quoted verbatim the exact sentences that I =
wrote that led him to apply that label.

Pierre?


--=20
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